5 Form of Aid for Couples Faced Severe Problems

After the commotion with the arrest of Tora Sudiro, the world of entertainment returned to excitement with the capture of a famous singer, Ello Tahitoe for using drugs. Surprising, but this news must have made his colleague Aurelie Moeremans even more surprised. In some news, Aurelie appeared to show her support for her partner who found a serious problem in his life, as well as Tora Sudiro's wife, Mieke Amalia. If you or one of your friends am in the same position as two tough women, there is a numbers of things you can do to give each other support.

1. Give encouragement.

Reporting from Sixseeds, besides giving advice couple, don't forget to encourage him who is feeling 'falling'. Don't just tried to solve the problem, but start by building a foundation of commitment and support for each other. Be a good listener.

2. Deal with problems together.

After having a relationship, especially tied to marriage, the problem of one parties is the responsibility that must be faced by both. Maybe now, the test of life befell the couple, but that does not mean you do not participate together. Don't let him feel alone, Bela. Because of the two, everything feels bettered for him.

3. Pray together and pray for one another.

The author Shaunti Feldhahn in his book, The Good News about Marriage, he wrote research that states that praying together can prevent divorce. Yes, but the fact is that prayer can do more than that, asking God is an intimate way to connect with your partner and the Creator.

4. Always pay attention to your partner's feelings.

When faced with a problem, we tended to feel more sensitive than usual, as well as the situation that is now experienced by the couple. So, always consider his feelings when making decisions, actions or words. In a situation likes this, try to be a patient woman.

5. Don't gave upped on each other, but strengthen each other.

All problems that come in a relationship can be skipped if you and your partner trust each other and don't gave upped on each other. Perseverance against the test of living together can bring closeness in your relationship, more than ever before. The position feels by Mieke and Aurelie can be felt by anyone, including us, Bela. If it happens, we cannot leave a partner who is struggling to face life's problems to return to our arms and family. Mieke Amalia Tora Sudiro, and Aurelie Moeremans to Marcelo Tahitoe, are able to survive and provide support to their men who are 'falling'. They is the inspirations those couples whom love each other will not leave each other.